PLAYING WITH YOUR CHILD


As a parent, do you ever get time to play with your child? I know life can be demanding, but it is those moments that help you bond with your child and create memories that last a lifetime. Amidst the hustle and bustle of every day life-work, cleaning the house, shopping or cooking, pause and get a few minutes with your child. Remember your child will only be a child just for a little while.


And when you decide to have play time with your child, remember to:

1. Mirror what your child is doing. for example if he/she is seated on the floor, do the same. Do not sit on the chair when your child is seated on the floor;
2. Let your child take the lead. Do not put words into your child's mouth/play. Ask him/her what he/she wants you to do-the role to play. Do not suggest your role-it is not your play, you are just an 'invited guest';
3. Do not leave before the game is over. Once you decide to get involved, COMMIT. Of course you can ask your child PERMISSION to go and check on 'the baby who is sleeping, the food on the stove so than it does not get burnt'. BUT remember to come back and see through the activity you started together;
4. Show your child that you are enjoying the time with him/her. Do not constantly look at your watch. This is your child's time not yours.